The Code of Rebirth

Welcome to Rebirth, a community where trust and open connections flourish.

We keep doors open—literally and metaphorically—to create spaces where everyone feels supported and celebration is part of everyday life.

Embracing pleasure as our lifeforce, we believe who we are outside the bedroom is who we are inside.

With a sexy, smart, and direct approach—no fluff or bullshit—we honor personal identities.

By decolonizing sex and democratizing pleasure, we cultivate joy and discovery in every interaction.

To keep our community thriving, we've put together guidelines that embody our mission and values.

Safety First
& Always

We get it: to truly let go and dive deep into pleasure, you need to feel safe. That safety comes from knowing your needs, wants, and desires—and feeling free to express them. It's about asserting your boundaries and respecting others'. When we all commit to this, we create a space where curiosity blossoms, and genuine connections happen.

Consent
is Everything

Consent isn't just a box to tick; it's the heartbeat of our community. Before joining us at any event, you'll complete an online consent training—think of it as your first step into our world. At the start of every gathering, we come together for a group chat to reaffirm our commitment to this essential principle.

If it's not a 'Fuck Yeah,'
it's a 'Fuck No.

Verbal Consent is a Must: Always seek a clear, spoken "yes" before moving forward. No assumptions, no maybes. If it's not an enthusiastic yes, it's a no.

Consent is Ongoing: People can change their minds at any time, and that's okay. Stay tuned in to your partners and keep the communication flowing.

Respect Boundaries: Everyone's comfort zones are different. Honor them without question or persuasion.

Don't Yuk Anyone's Yum: We all have different things that light us up. Celebrate those differences without judgment.

Reciprocity
of Respect

We're a tapestry of diverse backgrounds—different genders, orientations, races, religions, and stories. That's what makes us vibrant and alive. We embrace all bodies and believe in body positivity. Here, you can celebrate who you are, exactly as you are. Let's uplift each other, recognize the unique beauty each person brings, and create a space where everyone feels they truly belong.

Privacy
is Sacred

What happens at Rebirth stays at Rebirth. Our gatherings are intimate spaces built on trust. Sharing someone else's story outside these walls breaks that trust. So:

No Unapproved Photos or Videos: Once doors close, all cameras and phones should be put away.  Photos taken before the event starts can only be with verbally consenting individuals and no group shots. 

Mindful Watching: If you're observing, do so with respect. Pervy or intrusive behavior isn't cool and won't be tolerated.

Honor Confidentiality: Personal details and experiences shared here aren't for public consumption.  What happens at Rebirth stays at Rebirth.  Share your own stories, not others.

Show Up
as Your Best Self

We love it when you bring your whole self to the party—primped, pampered, and ready to dive in. Dressing up isn't about vanity; it's a celebration of self-love and the respect we have for our community. When you feel good, that energy spreads, making our gatherings even more magical.

Health and
Well-being Matter

We're all about embracing pleasure responsibly. That includes taking care of your sexual health and being open about it with partners. Regular STI checks and honest conversations help keep everyone safe. If you're feeling unwell or have concerns, it's okay to take a step back. Your well-being comes first.

Rebirth events are substance-free.  The endorphins and oxytocin you’ll experience provide all the lubricant you’ll need for us to swim in together.  Being present means you can fully engage, give and receive consent, and contribute to the positive vibes we all cherish.

Play
Consciously

One Community,
One Chance

Our commitment to safety and respect is unwavering. If someone violates these guidelines, they'll be removed immediately from the community without a refund. No second chances. It's how we protect the space we've all worked hard to build. If you see or experience something that doesn't feel right, please speak up. Let a Rebirth team member know—we're here to listen and support.

Let's Expand
Together

Communication is the glue that holds us together. Share your thoughts, your feelings, your ideas. We're always evolving, and your voice helps shape the future of Rebirth. Feedback isn't just welcome; it's essential.

By joining Rebirth events, you're not just attending—you're becoming part of a community that values you just as you are.